What does “Lean Back” really mean?

We talk a lot about the differences between masculine and feminine energy.

Masculine energy is the energy of progress, action, realization, and achieving goals. Feminine energy is the opposite of this.

Feminine energy is the energy of "leaning back." This means: letting life unfold spontaneously, enjoying life in the present moment, believing that you are safe and provided for at all times.

Before we delve into what "leaning back" really is, let's first focus on what it is not.

Leaning in doesn't mean being passive or sitting on the couch and "waiting for things to fall from the sky" or for other people to do everything for you.

Leaning back is active feminine energy.

This means:

• Knowing when to wait, realizing that you've done your part and nothing more is needed.

• You don't need to pressure, force, exhaust yourself, or prove your worth to get a man to ask you out or for money to come to you, just enjoy life.

So, what does the phrase "Lean back" mean?

A woman who fully embodies her feminine energy is aware of her worth, so she enjoys life while everything she needs unfolds and happens in the background because her incredible energy is magnetic.

She exudes incredible feminine energy and knows that the secret to living your best life with all your wants and needs is through being.

To be the best version of herself, to live from her inner truth, to trust the male energy that surrounds her and constantly takes care of her, to receive this from the men in her life.

The universe loves to care for the divine feminine woman, perfect in her feminine essence.

Leaning back means trusting that you are always safe and that you are allowed to live peacefully and magically. Without forcing anything to happen, and allowing all good things to come to you.  

So it's important to make a plan, know what you want, and be in harmony with yourself. This is what the "12 Faces of Life" mentoring package is for.

Of course she still does things, she still has goals. But she ENJOYS the process of achieving her goals and only does things that bring her joy and allow her to stay in that radiant feminine energy.

In contrast to masculine energy, which is a straight line forward to the goal, feminine energy is winding and illogical ;)

She knows that she doesn't always have to be "productive" to receive. Her main priority is to live in the present and in her body, knowing that she is always taken care of.

How does a woman with feminine energy lean back in a relationship with a man?

Just let a man be a man.

Men like to provide, protect, plan, and take care of their woman.

They like to have a woman in their life who radiates feminine energy, who is open to receiving and allows them to lead the course of a date or relationship. This is called polarity.

Such a woman sits back and lets the man lead the relationship.

Not in a controlling way, but that he is a real man and truly wants the best for her.

So she communicates her needs and allows him to help her. This, by the way, is what we learn in the "Relationship Whisperer" mentoring program.

It is important for a woman to fully trust the man in a relationship and allow him to follow her needs. Of course, it is also important that he is truly trustworthy and treats her like his shining queen.

If you are attracted to men who don't have this, emotional healing and creating a clear vision of what you are clearly striving towards is necessary.

So the female energy leans back so that it doesn't need to direct (or redirect) the male, plan or make decisions or initiate things. Many women do this these days, but they are the ones who embody the masculine qualities.

So it's hard to sit back and not let a man lead. When a woman leads, it happens that she will reach a point where she feels frustrated, resentful, exhausted, and attracts weak or abusive men (the type who will run out the door when the going gets tough).

So a woman in her feminine energy likes to lean back and "submit" to a man in her masculine energy who adores her. This has nothing to do with him controlling her, but rather with him earning his place in her heart and her life by truly loving her, being devoted to her, and treating her like a queen.

"Leaning back" in the workplace

Being a woman in feminine energy does not mean being a housewife who only takes care of the home and children (although many choose to do that and that is wonderful).

Many feminine women feel a deep calling to share their gifts with the world, so they do work they truly enjoy or start their own business.

But a feminine woman is not the type of boss with a masculine vibe who embodies masculine traits, rushes, exhausts herself, and competes with men to see who makes more money.

A feminine woman does work that inspires her, that she enjoys, respects her body when it needs to rest, and doesn't worry about excess money. She enjoys life and the work she does.

So focus on creativity at work, do the things you enjoy and outsource what you don't enjoy.

It's about knowing that you don't have to work hard to get clients or money. You just have to follow your intuition and do what feels right and good to you.

Leaning back in relation to abundance

A woman doesn't work hard for money. She knows she is always safe and taken care of, and money is a masculine energy that likes to provide for a feminine, radiant woman.

A feminine woman who embodies her feminine essence is a powerful magnet for abundance and prosperity, and she manifests money easily from her work, from the masculine energy in her life, from many different sources.

All she has to do is lean in and be open to receiving and following the divine guidance she receives.

Many women are raised from a young age by their ancestors, educational systems,... that they have to work hard, strive, and make sacrifices to get money.

So many women end up embodying masculine traits in order to survive. And their ability to receive is limited because of that. Because women are not naturally designed to always work hard and achieve goals, which is something that comes naturally to men.

And by becoming depleted, they block abundance.

When a woman begins to embody her feminine essence and lets go of hard work, worry, and worries, she can finally relax and open up to truly receive inspiration, creative ideas, and surplus money.

This is how you start to LIVE and not just survive.

Leaning back in life

Learning to "lean back" in life in general is truly a woman's art of living.

For many women who have lived for years embodying masculine traits in order to survive, and have had all sorts of limitations, blockages, and bad experiences that came with it, they finally lean back and feel safe and relaxed, as if they were reborn!

It's like a return to their true selves. This is who they always should have been if they hadn't been taught to embody masculine traits and follow other people's limiting beliefs about what they think they should be.

It's time to finally realize that you are safe. That you are worthy. You can enjoy life and live at your own pace.

Start respecting your inner feminine rhythm, which has no rules or social rigidity.

If you lean back, allow your femininity to shine through and pull things into you.

So feminine energy is not passive energy.

When you embody your feminine essence, you begin to attract everything you need and want into your life.

Your magnetic energy will actively attract and pull all the right things and people to you.

Think of the sirens in Greek mythology, they embodied feminine energy and sang and put their energy out to attract men to them.

So, when you embody your feminine energy and operate from that space, you will be like a magnet, attracting what you want and you can sit back and receive.

Go with the flow of life and enjoy the process. Sit back and let life unfold beautifully in the direction you want.