The labyrinth of life
Each of us finds ourselves at a crossroads at some point, not knowing which path will lead us to what our heart endlessly desires and our soul yearns for. When you are surrounded by feelings of helplessness, when you feel endlessly lonely, negative thoughts usually creep in and the beliefs and character traits that we fear surface. These are your deeply rooted beliefs that often drag you down instead of helping you float to the surface.
When you finally admit to yourself that you've gotten lost in the labyrinth of life, that you've found yourself at a dead end, and that you can't move forward, the first step towards solving your problem has been taken.
The next thing I recommend you do is:
You identify what exactly your problem is,
to find the answer to the question; why does this situation occur repeatedly or in cycles in your life?
Because until you recognize the essence of your problem, you cannot find a way to help you get out of it.
I suggest that you approach problem identification by:
1. You start by getting to know yourself.
When you know your essence, who you are, what your character traits are and how you act, for example, in stressful situations or situations when you are under pressure, then you know your characteristics, your subconscious patterns of action, which are like a button on autopilot. The BaZi birth chart can help you with this, telling you not only who you are in your conscious essence, but also who you are as an unconscious being and how you act in different situations and in relationships with different people.
Autopilot is exactly what you don't want, because it doesn't empower you, it doesn't give you a sense of power and control over your life. So your next step is to become aware of your patterns of action.
2. Become aware of patterns of action
The very fact that you are aware of your unconscious ways of acting is a step that takes you on the path to success. Because the moment you become aware of these ways, they become conscious patterns of action. And only conscious patterns can you begin to change with intention and persistence.
You can recognize patterns of action by carefully observing yourself or by evaluating them according to your astrological birth chart . Patterns of action are visible in BaZi as a matrix of interactions between animal signs and elements. At the moment of birth, we were given a toolbox. Unfortunately, the toolbox did not contain instructions for use or a plan for possible repairs. You have to do this yourself.
3. Make a plan
If you want to reach your goal, remember that the path to it is always marked by small steps and small progress. Don't be afraid that small movements will prevent you from reaching your goal. That is absolutely not true! Because every step forward, no matter how small, means that you are moving in the right direction.
When you start making a plan, don't forget to plan intermediate stations, milestones , where you will stop, look at where you are and measure how well you are progressing. These milestones are clear dividing lines in the BaZi chart between transitions and changes in the energies of individual animal signs and elements.
4. Set a realistic goal
If the bite is too big, we can't swallow it. So break it into smaller bites . Break your goal into just the right amount of bite-sized pieces that will be challenging for you on the one hand, but just big enough in your heart to know that you can achieve it with effort.
If you feel insecure and can't figure out how to make the right moves, seek help from someone who can look at your problem neutrally.
Feng shui principles provide powerful support in achieving your goals. They are like your personal guard, protecting you from intruders on the one hand and a stick on which you can lean to overcome the obstacles when your legs can barely carry you anymore.
5. The plan should include a time component
A plan is meaningless if it doesn't include a time component. This is a realistic deadline that will remind you again and again that you need to move forward along the path of your plan.
Time is a dimension that hides much more than just the ticking of the clock. Time also hides the element of energy. If you choose the right moment, sector, and direction of the sky, it's like drinking a can of energy drink that gives you wings and improves and accelerates your results.
6. Don't forget to reward yourself when you reach your goal.
It often happens to us that we don't know how to rejoice in our achievements. Include time and resources in your plan to reward yourself . Because important milestones need to be marked. This gives us the motivation to achieve new and new goals.
If you find yourself in this record and don't know if you can follow the steps on your own, I am here to stand by your side. Maybe you only need my company at one of the stations, or maybe you will offer me the opportunity to accompany you on the entire journey of your transformation. For years, I have been helping to decipher the "instructions for use" that we all received in our birth astrological BaZi chart, planning processes and helping to recognize natural milestones that you can reach.
Have a good trip!
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